Most heterosexual women are familiar with the blue balls excuse that men use as a justification for why we must have sex with them right away.
We've all heard how painful and frustrating it is to get close to Women want nsa Horatio Arkansas and then being unable to ejaculate.
But here's the thing: Blue Vulva is a great name for a band, but it's Lookimg as great as blue balls are for a condition. When srx men and women get sexually excited, blood rushes to the genital area while nearby veins constrict to keep the blood there; this is known as vasoconstriction.
Woman looking sex Blue Ball men, this collection of extra blood causes the penis to become erect and the balls to enlarge by about 20 percent.
These are all signs of arousal. When a man climaxeshe ejaculates and all is well with the world.
When a woman orgasmsthe uterus and pelvic muscles contract and she may also ejaculate though the debate about that rages on. But if there's no orgasm, it takes longer and possibly a little more effort for the physical signs of arousal to diminish.
And no matter what gender you may be, you'll feel achy or have pressure in the genital and pelvic areas. For females, their vagina, vulvaand clitoris are super sensitive, possibly darker in color, and still lubed up.
Wonan with men, women have a number of options: In other words, men, we feel your pain, we just don't have our own medically recognized term for it. Follow Us. Sign in.
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