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On the Kingsland Road, down through an anonymous-looking doorway, a basement-full of girls is getting sweaty to Nicki Minaj. As Minaj thumps on about butts and whatnot, the sea of thrashing lesbians becomes increasingly choppy.
The concept of "delightfully dank" is hard to explain to anyone unfamiliar with east London's lesbian scene. But down here, it's dark, cramped and sticky. In a fun way. The bare brick walls and concrete floor are part of the charm; a kitschy throwback to the days when queerness only existed underground and you wouldn't regularly see other lesbians in Boots, bulk-buying Gaviscon.
At Lemon Juice, expect to hear everything from Britpop to hip-hop, with a lot of dancy stuff in between. The crowd, although mixed, is young and arty: Her and Looking for cool lesbian to hang out with Jessie McLaughlin, Giulia Astesani and Lalu Delbracio form a collective of local artists — all in their mid twenties Seeking a plus size Reading wokingham early thirties — who use the money raised by their club night to put on exhibitions.
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So, there you go, it's actually pretty filthy. Astesani tells me that Lemon Juice is supposed to feel a bit like a house party. And it does. A bit like one you end up at witth at university, where you arrive knowing no one and leave, with a snail trail of beer cans, knowing everyone. It's sweaty basement time again. This one's a bit further north, in ultra-lesbian Stoke Newington, below the Marquis of Lansdowne another nice old pub.
The crowd at Aphrodyki, by far the newest lesbian night on this list, is conspicuously femme. It's rare to spot a handbag at any lesbian event, but tonight there are several of them floating about, lost and frightened. Darkness and dankness are all too familiar on the lesbian scene. But the pure basementness of this basement is, for the most part, eclipsed by upbeat girl pop Taylor Swift, Cpol Child, Britney and the many hot femmes dancing to it. Like lots of these packed-out nights, getting a drink is an ordeal — but drinks Looking for cool lesbian to hang out with are prime lesbian flirting ground, so make the most of your wait Naughty wives want sex Aberdeen a can of Red Stripe.
Same goes for toilet queues. In fact, queuing has become such a fixture at lesbian nights, it's pretty much achieved ritual status. By the end of the night, iut you haven't discussed periods or Nietzsche with at least four people while in a toilet queue, you've failed miserably.
Outside the pub, a few covens of queer girls from downstairs Horny wives of Clearwater smoking while talking witth Orange Is the New Black Looking for cool lesbian to hang out with their cats' diets. But at nights like this, there's no set aesthetic. For fans of femmes, accessible music and queuing, Aphrodyki is on monthly in Stoke Newington, and well worth the wait for the Red Stripes. Seeing as lesbians love coffee and dancing in equal measure, you'll find them here both a.
But mostly on Thursday evenings, Lokking this one, because of Clam Jam.
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But what's a "clam jam" when it's at home? There's actually some controversy over this. Some will tell you it's the female version of "sausage fest" a space containing too many dicks. Others insist that it's a verb, along the same lines Naked girls indian friend "cock block", i. Anyway, if long-haired girls in backwards caps think Cara Delevingne are your thing, you should probably get your butt down to Clam Jam.
There have been times I've let in groups of straight guys and they've done some weird shit. Harassing women and stuff. Stanisavljevic, originally from Serbia, has lived in London for 14 years, and started Clam Jam in as part of a mission to promote female DJs and inject some new and interesting music into the often quite samey lesbian scene.
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I'm in yet another basement. This is quite clearly where people like putting lesbians. But this basement differs from the other dyke basements in one major way: So, to be fair, it's less dyke basement and more psychedelic lesbian dungeon. I've been at Kitten for five minutes and already Han spotted my first celesbian: Romy from The xx. But then The Glory, which opened last year, is a bit of a gay-famous hub.
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Upstairs, in the rather genteel apart from all the drag lesbiian pub, the crowd is mostly male. But in the sizeable concrete bowels of The Glory, some of London's finest lesbians are having a rave. It's a slightly older crowd than most of the other nights. These women know the scene.
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And subsequently everyone seems to know each other — although this isn't at all unusual on the lesbian scene. Kitten began in but, so far, has only run once a ot.
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It's an elusive one, so catch it while you can. It doesn't have a website, but I recommend keeping an eye on London lesbian bible The Most Cake 's super-handy calendar to find out when and where it's happening again.
Anyway, fittingly, because of the lasers, the music is oit '90s house. Which is cool because, sadly, I spent all of the '90s being too young to go to a rave.
Now I'm at something that vaguely resembles one, except with loads of gay women who are famous on Twitter. See, before Tinder, if lesbians wanted to hook up, they had to start entire club nights. Meditate on that one during your next relentless streak of left swipes.
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Alarmingly, Pilkington explains, Kitten wasn't named after every lesbian's favourite baby animal. It's actually a joke about the object that, more than anything else in the world, amuses and repulses gay girls in equal measure: We may have handbags now, but show me a member of the sisterhood in a pair of slingbacks and I'll eat one of my DMs.
Fo the TMC calendar themostcake. If you can see someone with three different shades of purple in their hair, a cute butch girl in a bowtie and a Kathleen Hanna lookalike dancing, with reckless abandon, to Britney, you may well be at Unskinny Bop. And OK, it may not be new like the others, but by God it's good, and thus deserves a mention.
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Generally speaking, it's more about making friends and dancing stupidly than sourcing your next fuck. Out of east London's entire catalogue of LGBT nights, Unskinny is probably the most loved and, since it's been running for 10 years now, the most historic.
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He explains that, at one point, fashion-y gay boys would too around the block to get into Unskinny, and it would be pretty normal for someone like fashion designer Henry Holland to pop in.
But these days it's a far more mixed crowd in terms of gender and dress sense.
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So, for me, a night like this feels really warm and lovely. For Sean, who is genderqueer and prefers the pronoun "they", the more vanilla central London gay scene is of very little interest.
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